45 year old Female from Harrow/London, London, United Kingdom
1. What sets Mistress Xena apart from other Mistresses? I think maybe my physicality and unique background. From being a Competitive Bodybuilder, Black Belt Martial Artist and tv / movie Stunt woman specializing in fighting and sword play. I have even been in a Bond movie!
2. What influenced you to embrace BDSM and become Mistress Xena? Whilst working at a charity event the Sex Maniacs Ball as specialist security I discovered a mind blowing visual eye opening world full of wonderful open minded people….and was hooked!
3. What makes mistress happy? Reconnecting with loyal regulars or meeting interesting newbies, but a satisfyingly skilled barefoot worship session will always put a smile on my face.
4. How would you describe Mistress Xena’s style? Very early on I was introduced to an artist called Eric Stanton (well worth a google) and realised most of his drawings were quite similar to me. Shapely, muscular, busty women tormenting puny little men. Tight pencil skirt, high heels, satin blouses very 50’s aesthetics. Classic Domina style.
5. What equipment do you have in your dungeon? Suspension, Whipping Stool, cage and rack, Custom articulating Bondage Chair, body bags etc and like so many Mistresses all the dildos, whips, clamps and hoods. Where my differs slightly is the aesthetics. The room was designed by a professional movie set designer and boasts red ruched ceiling, wall length mirrors no windows to the outside world, providing a totally immersive escapist fantasy environment.
6. What is your favourite piece of equipment and why? I managed to purchase a brand new violet wand and love it. It can be used safely all over the body from mild to extreme. It even goes up to 12 unlike most slaves!
7. What would you consider a great session? For me the fun is being able to key into the slaves fantasy and go on the journey with them. From a hardened Football Fan discovering his Feminine side or a Grown School Boys ever erratic lines as I lean in closely to a Slave half way round the world gaining satisfaction by phone or text.
8. What new developments have you got planned for this year? Given the unsettled times I am concentrating on expanding on my Phone and Text sessions. I am also enjoying reliving all the great photo shoots I have done with slaves and other Mistress’ over the years. The plan is to make the over 20,000 images back catalogue available online soon.
9. What can a slave expect on their first visit? From the first ring of the bell the slave will be invited into my private discreet residence for my exclusive time. Then we will discuss the required type of session and any physical or medical restrictions. They are then offered two choices :
A. get in the dungeon and strip and await for me on their knees.
B. To be left to look at some suitable literature and watch as I descend the stairs in the highest heels and forcibly drag them into the dungeon.
This builds up the tension and allows me to get in the right Mistress head space and their subspace for the session. After there is always time to use the bathroom and shower and an unhurried debrief before returning to the normal world.